Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite book and why?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What's the worst lie you've ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you off the most sexually?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
You've probably been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite book and why?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What's the worst lie you've ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you off the most sexually?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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