Does My Boyfriend Really Love Me? 3 Tips To Prove He Really Loves You

By Sarah Nichols

When you fall in love with someone, of course you hope that he has the same feeling towards you as well. But due to your insecure heart, you will always doubt his love for you. Does he really love me? This is the question that will always pop up in your mind. This happens because you really love him a lot and plan to develop a long lasting relationship with him.

It is always painful to guess if your boyfriend truly loves you or not. Some girls will think negatively and ended up with break up. The worst thing is after breaking up, you start to realize that he is actually the one who loves you the most. Thus, think carefully before making a regretful decision. Here are some tips to prove that he really loves you.

Give Surprises

When a guy really falls in love with you, he will always wants give you surprises. From time to time, he will plan something nice and romantic with you. For example, he will bring you out for a nice and romantic candlelight dinner at a restaurant. After the dinner, he will plan something nice with you such as night walk or a movie date.

Besides that, he would love to buy special gift for you to make you happy although there is no special occasion coming soon. All he wants is to prove that he cares about you. Don't ever compare the price of the gift but think of the effort in pleasing you. Not all guys are good in giving surprises. This indicates that you are someone special for him; someone he thinks of most of the time.

Teasing

If a guy is attracted to you, once in a while he will tease you. Don't be too serious in whatever he teases you because he doesn't mean it. He might want to make fun with you only. Try to be positive. Don't create a stress environment and quarrel just because of the small teasing.

Sometimes, if he overdoes it, you can pretend to be mad. He will definitely feel guilty and say sorry to you repeatedly until you forgive him. This shows that he still care for your feeling. Sometimes, you can tease him back as well! Teasing each other can strengthen your relationship with him.

Problem Sharing

If he really loves you, he will treat you as someone really special in his life. He will share every single thing with you no matter it is happy or sad. Try to be his good listener. Help him out whenever he faces problems. If you are unable to do so, just listen to his problems and give him your best moral support. Remember, when a guy is willing to share his everything with you, it shows that you are important to him. Show your concern and make him feel that you appreciate him as well.

After knowing all these, reevaluate him by asking yourself; 'does he really loves me?'. If he doesn't show to you all the above mentioned tips, try to have a soft talk with him. Maybe this is his first time in a relationship with a girl and he has no experience yet. Tell him what do you feel and what you want. If he really loves you, you will notice his change.

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